DON'T add to her stress
DO figure out ways to relieve her stress
DON'T Compare your children with other children
DO compare your child to their own abilities
DONT Ask her why the house is not clean or why the food is not cooked.
DO cook/clean yourself or hire somebody to do those things
DON'T sit in front of a screen when you come home because you've had a stressful day at work...You have no idea what stress is
DO take over from her and let her have some decompression time
DON'T ever question money she has spent for homeschooling stuff
DO spend less money on your next toy instead
DON'T be a wall flower when it comes to your kids' education
DO figure out what part of their education you will own
Disclaimer: I know these DONT's well because I've done/do every single one.